High dating expectations

Web Design London. Book a free discovery consultation with a HQ Team member today…. Your Name required. Your Email required. Your Number required. Women have high expectations of dating — but so should you.

When you're swiping through an endless stream of shirtless duds on Tinder, it's easy for a cute, witty, seemingly-normal guy to feel like the one. It's even easier when you realize his Spotify tastes sync with yours, and he's a vegetarian just like you are!!! You just know you're going to feel that "spark" the moment you spot him at the bar, move in together immediately, and, one day, toast to the 50 years that have passed since you both swiped right. Except when you go out in real life, the spark never comes: He never asks you any questions, is grumpy to the bartender, and ghosts you three days after meeting.

Who would choose Will over Adam? Will, on the other hand has… well… a great sense of humor. Clients come into my office with a long list of deal-breakers that are totally unrealistic.

Having a few dealbreakers in a relationship doesn't make you a bad person. But when your criteria for a partner includes politics, height requirements, and a particular degree level, it's possible you've taken the checklist a bit too far. The signs your expectations are too high are sometimes hard to catch, but are crucial to look out for if you're looking for something more serious. While experts agree that it's totally viable to look for someone who shares your religious background or desire not to have kids, the mentality that you know exactly what your future partner will be like can get in your way.