If you're one of the few women who can pull off multiple orgasms like they're NBD, congrats! We're pretty sure they exist, but it'd be a lot easier to get on board if we'd ever experienced one ourselves. If you're looking for tips on how to improve your odds of experiencing the mythical multiple orgasm, you can find some helpful tips here and here. In the meantime, two real women who Are About That Life explain exactly what it feels like to have multiple orgasms. When was your first multiple orgasm? Did you give it to yourself the first time, or was it with a partner?
I always make myself orgasm - so why do I have to fake it during sex?
But I was always unsure. How do you know if that was it? Was that it? It seemed more uncomfortable and painful than anything else. It was a point of contention with my first boyfriend. And then eventually, somewhat embarrassingly, it was a TV show called Masters of Sex that helped things make a lot of sense. The show introduced me to the work of sexologists Dr William Masters and Virginia Johnson, who helped usher in the sexual revolution with their findings about pleasure and sexual response.
I always make myself orgasm - so why do I have to fake it during sex?
When it comes to health and wellness trends and gimmicks, I consider myself a professional lab rat on board with anything short of amputating a limb. I've allowed acupuncturists to jab needles into my forehead, let a "strawberry lipo" laser penetrate 13 millimeters into my abdomen to melt fat, and had my vagina tightened with a laser. And yet, I've somehow managed to neglect trying the easiest, most satisfying, and healthy not to mention totally free! Let's talk facts first. An orgasm is, of course, that explosive, blissful moment when all of your sexual stars align and the vagina contracts in intensely pleasurable waves.
I am 37 years old, I'm 5'6" and about very healthy pounds, no meds or history. I have been with someone for 8 months now. I have never really taken the time to masturbate until about 7 months ago when my partner recommended it, after he was stunned he couldn't give me an orgasm after hours of trying multiple times. I did go out and buy a pocket rocket and, that day, was easily able to give myself several orgasms in an hour. I think I may have masturbated a little as a teen, but wasn't really interested.