Suddenly sliding away from that peak is disappointing, to say the least. That's doubly true for women, many of whom find it much harder to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex. In fact, according to a recent survey, only 65 percent of heterosexual women consistently reach the pinnacle of pleasure during sex. So what can you do to help her reach that peak? Help her relax, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph. Translation: if you make a woman feel so good that she completely forgets about everything else, then you're highly likely to give her an orgasm.
Yes, both men and women orgasm during sleep and it is perfectly normal. When men experience orgasm in their sleep, these are known as nocturnal orgasms or wet dreams. These wet dreams are mostly associated with puberty in young boys, and they happen due to increased testosterone levels. However, women also experience wet dreams or sleep orgasms. This is not at all weird.
It's the only thing that feels better than diving into a cool lake on a sweltering day, biting into a juicy cheeseburger when you're starving, or even getting your wallet back after losing it on vacation abroad. An orgasm is that good. Which is why it bites that it doesn't happen more often.
By Michael Le Page in Copenhagen. For women, it seems, sex is a big turn-off, reveals a brain scanning study. It shows that many areas of the brain switch off during the female orgasm — including those involved with emotion.