Gay sex offers a wide range of possibilities and positions where pleasure is always guaranteed. This pleasure lies in the variety of fun and exciting positions two men can experience together. The key here is being open to experimentation and trying new and different sexual positions. Are you looking for the best sex positions for gay men?
They can be a top — someone who prefers to act as the penetrative partner during anal sex; be versatile — one who is happy to both give and receive; and a bottom — someone who enjoys acting as the receiving partner. There are also subcategories, including vers-top and vers-bottom, but for simplicity, I will focus on the most commonly used positions. As someone who has been both a top and a bottom, I feel that bottoms are totally underappreciated by the gay community — both in terms of the expectations placed on them and the disregard for their effort, comfort and enjoyment. It takes a lot of preparation to engage in anal sex — something a top benefits greatly from, but almost never worries about. This preparation mostly involves cleaning out the rectum with water, which can be both physically uncomfortable and utterly boring.
Learn gay sex positions through photographs, a visual gay Kama Sutra. Cum and enjoy! Anal sex toys such as dildos, butt plugs and vibrators can be a beautiful complement to your favourite sex positions.
The reality is that anal sex can be messy. Bottoms: Wash yourself out with an enema or simply using soap and water before sex to make things as clean as possible. Tops: if it gets a little messy down there, be cool about it! Always practice safer sex, which includes using condoms and plenty of water-based lube , and getting tested regularly for STIs and HIV.