I was 19 when I first had full-on sex with another man. I was at college, living in dorms, and the experience—aside from the usual horrifying awkwardness and somewhat spontaneity of the occasion—was completely and utterly unremarkable aside from one thing: the guy I slept with identified as straight. It was late or early, depending on your outlook on the world when I was joined by the boy who was living in the room next to mine, way back on the other side of the building. He was clearly intoxicated, but it was a party after all and who was I, quite drunk myself, to judge. The minutiae of exactly how things developed from us being together in that room to us having slightly unsuccessful sex in a bathroom in a different corridor have since escaped me. All I know is that one moment we were talking and the next minute, well


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21 Things to Know Before Losing Your Gay Virginity



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Elton John revealed he lost his virginity at the aged of 23, saying he was desperate to be loved. The passionate encounter inspired the intimate scene between Elton who is played by Taron Egerton and John who is played by Richard Madden in the Dexter Fletcher-directed movie. I was desperate to be loved and desperate to have a tactile relationship. It was in San Francisco. And the Tiny Dancer singer — who has been openly gay since — says is proud of the intense love scene that happens in the film because he wants his story to be portrayed accurately. Elton has been married to his partner David Furnish since 56, with whom he has two children Zachary, eight, and Elijah, six. If you've got a story, video or pictures get in touch with the Metro.


What's Losing Your Virginity Like For A Guy? 14 Straight And Gay Men Share Their Experiences
A year-old boy is sitting on a park bench in Stockport, Greater Manchester, waiting for an important delivery: the cream tuxedo he has ordered from a nearby suit hire shop to wear to his school prom. His name is Nathaniel Hall. He has neat, even features, light brown hair teased into spikes, and beads round his neck. Nathaniel does not know that theirs will be a short fling with lifelong consequences; that the first time he has sex he will contract a virus that will fill his life with silence. Fifteen years later, he sits in his flat in Levenshulme, south Manchester, a few miles from the park bench, telling BuzzFeed News what unfolded from that day: the HIV diagnosis, how the shock muzzled him, preventing him from telling his parents, and how that corroded everything that followed.




I lost my virginity to someone I loved, and to this day, I feel very lucky for that. As a gay man, I had always figured my first time wouldn't be special; that the expectation that two men would be down to bang immediately after getting together would cheapen my experience. Luckily, I was wrong. Still, as a man, everything I had learned about sex in the media up to that point had taught me that I was supposed to feel next-to-nothing the first time that I had sex; that it didn't matter for me in the long run the way it seemed to for women. Movies like American Pie and Porkey's taught me and my peers that young men are supposed to sleep with as many women as they can — and love it.