First, some history: When I was a child, watching my pops get ready to go out was something to behold. He would spend hours preparing his mask every morning for whatever crowd, person or community he faced. Even years later, my pops still took longer to get ready than my mother and sister combined, delicately taking a black Sharpie to any stray grays that might pop up in his goatee. My pops would explain that as a young man in the Dominican Republic, you had to work so hard perfecting yourself, preparing your mask, so that when a young European or American woman came through, she might choose you, as he would put it, might take you home with her, like that was your only way out.
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So when he asked me to stand before him naked, I had a flicker of doubt and fear. This was my first time with my dominant. My Sir. The white man who controlled my Black body and its pleasure. Having more experience with BDSM than I did, Jay suggested that we establish a foundation of trust before dabbling in power exchange.
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I was talking to my friend, Kim, as we sipped cocktails at a bar in Hollywood. She followed my gaze. I nodded. She raised an eyebrow and slurped on her vodka cranberry.
If you decide to date a white boy, You are no longer pro black. It does not matter that you were on the ground in East St. Or that you would rather spend two hours Friday night detangling Than smear creamy poison on your scalp.