My girlfriend is bisexual

My girlfriend told me she fancied a girl we met, and suggested we hit on her together and potentially have a threesome. I said I wasn't interested at the moment, but the issue has been bothering me a lot since. The girl in question was seriously hot, and my girlfriend had been told beforehand that she was interested in experimenting with girls. I've never had a threesome, so in some sense I think I must be crazy to have turned the idea down, because all men want threesomes, right? But it's bothered me a lot, and I would appreciate some advice to help figure this out in my head. View related questions: confidence , her ex , kissing , text , threesome.

I have always known I am attracted to women as well as men, but have never acted on it. I love my partner, but when I think about the eventuality of marriage, a mortgage and children, I feel a small surge of sadness : have I missed the chance to explore my sexuality? Before I knew it, I was in my final year and I had started dating my now long-term partner. Only you can decide what is best for you, and you could not be blamed for choosing safety and stability over sexual exploration. However, you would not be asking the current question were you not deeply troubled by your feelings. Perhaps there is a way for you to try connecting with a woman to whom you are attracted — in order to explore the erotic possibilities in a non-physical way ie without sabotaging your primary relationship. I am not suggesting you have an affair although some people in your position might choose such a course of action in pursuit of self-discovery but rather, that you open yourself a bit more to attractions and erotic signals that you have previously avoided.

My girlfriend wants me to try something bisexual. It has been a big fantasy of hers. We have been together for three years. She has asked me about it for over a year.

My boyfriend of a year says he is bisexual. I knew this from the beginning because we met on a dating app and he had that clearly stated in his profile. However, what I am concerned about is that he is using me as a stepping stone to acknowledging to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be in a heterosexual relationship in order to reap the social benefits having kids, generally being accepted in society, etc. I once asked him when we first started dating if he was with me to appease his family, whom he's very close with, and he said "Kind of" but that he still found me attractive.